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What You Innocently Do Wrong For Your Friend
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People make mistakes;it happens!You make mistakes; you are not a saint.But the problem is, in friendships, sometimes you make horrible mistakes you are not even aware of, and go sporting a halo on top of your head while causing massive emotional destruction. here are examples:

-your friend has wronged you, or made an unacceptable choice.of course you both love each other. so you choose not to hurt his feelings by talking to him directly: instead, so as to get it off your chest, you chat with another friend about it & WOW ; WORRIED ABOUT FEELINGS??? you have just wounded your friend coz when the talk reaches him -and beleive me, it will reach- he is gonna feel awful,gonna be made at himself AND you. Ya3ny get teka7alha 3ametha. poor you!

-Your friend is in terrible mood; he is so much in need for your shoulder to cry on ,seeking your help.Being the loyal and generous friend you are , you deside to come to rescue.And being the unbelievably wise person you are , you decide that he is in need not to talk about what is bothering him, but rather forget all about it and live his life fully. So, either beacuse you are completely stupid &insensitive you end up getting into afit of nonsense , trying to entertain him!!!!! NO comment!

-you like your friend alot; we get that! he gets that too. But you donot need to suffocate him with that love.Everyone needs his space and room to breathe. Just because you love them, doesnot mean you OWN them. they CAN have other friends if they want to. I get that you want them to feel how much you love them; but come on! GET A BIRD! IT Is not love; this is an ill jealousy. cut it out!

-Just accept your friend as he is, as all your futile attempts to change him are yielding, nothing but discomfort &5an2a.

-People think that friends should be so much alike & have everything in commen. Well, too much likeness is amusing at the beginning; but it rapidly gets boring &later soon life is bound to be a LIVING HELL!!

IT was only examples i picked it up,
sure that most of you have similar examples & most of you regrets for behaving in such way... .

December 25, 2007 | 6:34 AM Comments  2 comments

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Alzahraa alzahraa abdel badya
December 28, 2007 | 8:05 AM

forgivness should be always there
greatglobalist Sher Ahmed Khan
April 8, 2008 | 3:59 AM
Bird are free and live within discipline
Birds have one life to play,
chirp chirp chirp it away,
and one life to make a nest,
bit by bit and twig by twig,
and one life mate and lay eggs
and boom babies,
because birds live in flocks,
and they are birds..
birds sit alone sometimes when the paretner has flown bit far,
showing sadness,
birds show worry,
birds show strength,
i picked up the little fledgling one day ,it had falklen from the nest,
i walked around and happily fed it,
and at night i caged it in net shelf,
i carelessly slept
and the cat walked in,
it scared the baby to death,
all day next its parents,
were hitting themselves against the mnets of my windows,
to express,
we lost our baby somewhere else,
and here we can expreess
with someone who tried to show his care
but what is gone
has left
itys right
every thing has a time..............
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